How to... Be More Confident

Hey everyone.

Some days, we can wake up feeling like crap, as if the world behind the curtains is dark and cloudy. We then struggle to get out of bed, and face the world. Other days, we can hop out of bed with a huge smile and a healthy feeling in our minds. Confidence is something inside of us, that only you can bring out and show everyone. We sometimes need help, in order to bring the confidence out and let yourself shine. We all have our fair share of ups and downs, but try and think you are on a rollercoaster that only goes up. Do you ever look at yourself in the mirror and think "How will I get outside the door?" or "How will I be more confident around others?". Here are my tips, that might give you some enlightenment and inspiration.

1.Stop comparing. Stay focused on you.

Don't care what everyone else is up to. Everyone has their own missions and tasks to carry out every day, so leave them to it. We can get consumed in other peoples lives and wish your life is like theirs, but why don't you create your own happiness and a world where people can see how wonderful you are. Make your own plans and stick to them.

2. Relax and Go with the flow.

Don't be like me and stress over the little things like your hair not sitting right when you wake up. Life is not meant to be made a stress about. Yes, times can get tough but you need to relax and realise things will turn around. You must try to enjoy life and make the most of the opportunities and experiences that come your way. When life gets you down, do you know what you have to do? "Just Keep Swimming" - Dory, Finding Nemo.

3. Love yourself.

People never think it, but I don't exactly have great self-esteem. I usually seek for others to love me,but why would someone love me if I don't love myself. No, I'm not talking about being cocky. But by looking after myself and respecting myself and treating myself how I would like to be treated. It's a great quality to have because I want to be around people who like themselves. You need to realise you a a gift and nothing would be the same if you didn't exist.

4. Be positive.

This is hard for me to say because I am so pessimistic. But, being positve will make you life so much easier. Always try and look for a good thing in any situation. Life brings some bad times, but it challenges you to try and find the light in the darkness.

5. Do what you love.

Life is short and flies by us day by day and week by week. We need to try and not have so many regrets. If you want to do anything, just do it! Nothing is impossible or out of your reach. You are capable of doing anything, we aren't superheros but we are miracles who got a chance to live on earth. Don't waste time doing something you hate.

I do hope this helped in some way. We can all get down and feel bad about ourselves, but search for that silver lining in that grey cloud and be confident and shine.

Stay Tuned for more chaos,

JB

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